ou Don’t Need to Justify Joining the Military to ANYONE but Yourself!

Episode Overview:

Have you ever had someone try to talk you out of joining the military? If so, this episode is for you! Host Dave Pere, a Marine Corps veteran, shares his personal experience of facing resistance when he enlisted, along with insights from his time as a recruiter.

Dave dives deep into the mindset struggles, societal expectations, and external pressures that many aspiring service members face. He also reads a Facebook note he wrote as a high school senior defending his decision to enlist. If you’re dealing with negativity from family, friends, or partners about joining the military, this episode will help you navigate those conversations with confidence.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

✅ Dave’s personal journey of enlisting despite opposition from family and friends
✅ Common objections people face when considering military service
✅ Why some people regret not joining the military later in life
✅ How to handle criticism from loved ones and stay true to your goals
✅ The benefits of military service compared to traditional college paths
✅ Lessons from Dave’s time as a recruiter—real stories from applicants

Timestamps:

• (00:00) – Introduction: Facing opposition when enlisting
• (01:16) – Dave’s background: Growing up in rural Arkansas and finding the Marine Corps
• (02:41) – Parental resistance: Why Dave’s parents refused to sign his enlistment papers
• (04:07) – Reading Dave’s old Facebook post: Defending his choice to enlist
• (07:30) – The military vs. college debate: Is college always the right choice?
• (11:55) – Recruiter stories: Parents, girlfriends, and coaches talking applicants out of enlistment
• (16:20) – Advice for aspiring service members: How to handle negativity
• (20:26) – Final thoughts: Owning your decision and staying the course

Resources & Links:

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📚 Get Dave’s Book: The No B.S. Guide to Military Life – https://www.frommilitarytomillionaire.com/free-book 

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🎖️ Thank you for listening! Stay motivated, stay disciplined, and as always—Semper Fi!